In short
Most mortgage programs accept gift money for a down payment, but only from approved donors and with a signed gift letter stating that no repayment is expected. Fannie Mae allows gifts from relatives and certain close non-relatives. FHA also accepts employers, unions, close friends, charities and public agencies. Lenders must trace the money from donor to buyer. For taxes, the IRS annual exclusion is $19,000 per recipient in 2026. The donor, not the buyer, generally pays any gift tax.
Who can give: Fannie Mae and FHA compared
Each loan program has its own donor list. The table summarizes the two published rulebooks reviewed here.
| Rule | Fannie Mae (conventional) | FHA |
|---|---|---|
| Relatives | Yes: spouse, child, other dependent, or anyone related by blood, marriage, adoption or legal guardianship | Yes: the borrower’s “Family Member” |
| Non-relatives | Domestic partner, fiancé(e), former relative, or a person with a “long-standing familial-like or mentorship relationship” | Close friend “with a clearly defined and documented interest in the Borrower” |
| Organizations | Grants are covered by a separate section | Employer or labor union, charitable organization, or a government homeownership program |
| Excluded donors | Builder, developer, real estate agent or any other interested party | Unacceptable sources; cash on hand is not an acceptable donor source |
| Property types | Principal residence or second home; “Gifts are not allowed on an investment property” | Gifts of equity only between Family Members |
Fannie Mae allows a gift from the seller only if the seller is also an acceptable donor and not tied to another interested party. Under FHA rules, “Only Family Members may provide equity credit as a Gift on Property being sold to other Family Members.”
For program basics, see conventional loans and FHA loans.
How much of the down payment can be a gift
Fannie Mae. The Selling Guide sets a minimum contribution from the borrower’s own funds in some cases:
- LTV of 80% or less (one- to four-unit principal residence, or second home): no minimum. “All funds needed to complete the transaction can come from a gift.”
- LTV above 80%, one-unit principal residence: no minimum either.
- LTV above 80%, two- to four-unit principal residence or second home: the borrower “must make a 5% minimum borrower contribution from their own funds.”
A gift from a donor who has lived with the borrower for the last 12 months counts as the borrower’s own funds, if both will live in the new home.
FHA. The borrower must make a “Minimum Required Investment (MRI) of at least 3.5 percent of the Adjusted Value.” A gift can cover the MRI if it also meets FHA’s MRI source rules. For down payment basics, see down payment.
What the gift letter must say
Fannie Mae requires a letter signed by the donor that:
- states “the actual or the maximum dollar amount of the gift”;
- includes “the donor’s statement that no repayment is expected”;
- gives the donor’s name, address, telephone number and relationship to the borrower.
FHA requires a gift letter “signed and dated by the donor and Borrower” that includes:
- the donor’s name, address and telephone number;
- the donor’s relationship to the Borrower;
- the dollar amount of the Gift;
- “a statement that no repayment is required.”
Under FHA rules, both donor and borrower sign. Under Fannie Mae rules, the donor signs.
How lenders trace the money
Fannie Mae accepts, among other documents:
- a copy of the donor’s check and the borrower’s deposit slip;
- a copy of the donor’s withdrawal slip and the borrower’s deposit slip;
- proof of an electronic transfer to the borrower or the closing agent;
- a settlement statement showing receipt of the donor’s check.
If the money moves at closing, the donor must give it to the closing agent by “electronic transfer, certified check, a cashier’s check, or other official check.”
FHA requires, before settlement, proof such as the donor’s bank statement showing the withdrawal and the deposit into the borrower’s account. At settlement, it requires evidence of an electronic transfer, a bank certified check, a cashier’s check or another official bank check. The lender must be able to determine “that the gift funds were not provided by an unacceptable source.”
Gift funds can also help with closing costs under Fannie Mae rules. See closing costs explained.
Gift tax: what the donor should know
The IRS sets an annual exclusion per recipient. For 2026, it is $19,000. The IRS explains: “if you give each of your children $19,000 in 2026, the annual exclusion applies to each gift.” Each spouse is entitled to the exclusion, so the IRS lists a 2026 total of $38,000 per recipient from two spouses. Splitting a gift with a spouse requires filing Form 709.
The 2025 Form 709 instructions say that a donor who gave someone more than $19,000 in the year (other than a spouse) “must generally file Form 709.” Filing does not always mean tax is owed. For 2026, the basic exclusion amount is $15,000,000.
On who pays, the IRS states: “The donor is generally responsible for paying the gift tax.” Gifts to a spouse and payments of someone’s tuition or medical expenses are also excluded.
Frequently asked questions
Can a friend give me money for a down payment?
Under FHA rules, yes, if the friend has a clearly defined and documented interest in you. Under Fannie Mae rules, a non-relative must have a familial-like or mentorship relationship, or be a domestic partner, fiancé(e) or former relative.
Can the whole down payment be a gift?
Often yes. Fannie Mae requires no borrower contribution at an LTV of 80% or less, or for a one-unit principal residence. A 5% contribution applies above 80% LTV for two- to four-unit homes and second homes.
Does the buyer pay tax on a gift?
The IRS says the donor is generally responsible for paying gift tax. The donor may need to file Form 709 when gifts to one person exceed the annual exclusion.
Can a gift be used for an investment property?
Not under Fannie Mae rules, which state that gifts are not allowed on an investment property.
Can the seller give a gift?
Under Fannie Mae rules, only if the seller is also an acceptable donor with no tie to another interested party. Under FHA rules, a gift of equity is allowed only between Family Members.
General information drawn from the official sources cited and dated on this page. It is not legal, tax or financial advice: for your own situation, ask a licensed professional.
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Sources
- B3-4.3-04, Personal Gifts (Fannie Mae Selling Guide) (consulted October 19, 2026)
- Single Family Housing Policy Handbook 4000.1, update of August 12, 2026 (U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development) (consulted October 19, 2026)
- Frequently asked questions on gift taxes (Internal Revenue Service) (consulted October 19, 2026)
- Instructions for Form 709 (2025) (Internal Revenue Service) (consulted October 19, 2026)
- What's new — Estate and gift tax (Internal Revenue Service) (consulted October 19, 2026)